So Hard to Believe

How could a mother choose one child over the rest of her kids? It is so baffleling to me to watch her have the blinders on this bad. Right now there are 4 of her 9 kids that will not even show up to her funeral, make that 5 out 9 now. I'm about ready to walk away too. I wrote her a letter and mailed it and she told another sister show won't read it because it will upset her. She gets so upset if anyone says anything negative about Tenna... yeah thats her name. Tenna has never married and if you knew her you would know why.... can you say BIOTCH! Plus she would have to wear the pants. She has a son that has never seen his dad but she makes sure he pays child support and he is 17 now. What an idiot he is, he might want to get a DNA test from what the rumors are I'm hearing. I have 6 kids and lord all mighty I could never choose one over the others.
Can someone please tell me what you think about all of this. Makes me cry thinking about it.

Looking for NEW Family!

I have to complain.... about my crazy family. I'm the oldest of 9 kids and we have a sister that is a middle child that for some reason has decided she is the boss of the family. Some how she has got everything my parents ever owned away from them. The last thing was my parents motor home that is now in her name. My dad died a few years ago and my mom has been living with her. Now if you don't kiss this sisters ass she won't let you over to visit with mom. So for the most part you walk on egg shells. She is a single mom and thinks the world owes her something. The father of her child told her to take hike and she has been bitter ever since. About 24 months ago she decides to open a construction business and asked to use my hubby's name on her first house she wanted to build. Reluctantly he agrees and she also used my moms name on another lot next door. Oh I need to tell you she is a mortgage rep too. Needless to say a year later she defaults on the loan and tells us ... "Sorry ran out of money" and causes my mom and my family to have a foreclosure on our hands. This brilliant sister then sends me an email telling me that she wants to pay us 15-20,000 for our now credit issues due from her.We have never seen a dime of this money either.She also promised to help buy mt husband a new truck.. nope didn't happen either. During this time she starts building a home for herself that actually was finished. Funny how our home had no money to finish but hers did and her cabin got remodeled, her son got a truck, boat and motorcycle, she bought (paid cash) for her son's girlfriend a car, which she put in my mom's name, bought a big bulldozer thingy. I finally had had enough and called her on the carpet for all the crap she has done and you guessed it.... now she is mad and won't allow my mother to talk to me... and my mom lets her do this crap. I'm about to tell my mom to take hike too. This has been going on for years. My brother has tried to talk to my mom about this problem and she just doesn't see it as being a problem. Sister big mouth can do no wrong but don't let the other 8 of us say anything negative about "big mouth" What would you all do? Should I cut my losses and tell them to I'm done with them? Oh and one last thing .. during this house thing my son was fighting cancer (16 yrs) and we could have used the money this house deal was suppose to get us. This sister is in her late 40's, never married, never had a boyfriend since the guy that got her pregnant. She is quite the loser and why my mother can't see that is beyond me. Any suggestions? She acts like a man, maybe she wants to be man.
She has now let her house and the one she built in her name go back to the bank too. That makes 4 homes total that have gone back to the bank. She is such a loser.